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Perkahwinan.. satu perkataan yang mudah ditutur dan nampak seperti sesuatu yg biasa. Biasalah orang berkahwin kan. Namun disebalik kemudahan dan kebiasaan tersebut terselit satu tanggungjawab yang sangat besar seiring dengn perkahwinan tersebut. Nampak mudah tapi sukar. Sangat sukar. Segalanya sukar. Berkongsi hak milik itu sukar. Menjadikan orang luar sebagai ahli keluarga itu sukar. Hidup bersama itu sukar. Berkongsi dengan orang luar rahsia yang hanya diketahui keluarga adalah sangat sukar. Segala-galanya sukar. Apabila wujud tanggapan sebegitu ia membuktikan bertapa tidak bersedianya seseorg itu untuk menempuh alam perkahwinan. Sebab perkahwinan itu memperlukan anda untuk menerimanya seadanya baik buruk dirinya mahupun keluarganya. Tidak kisah berkonsi segala-galaya. Saling bertolak ansur. Sentiasa bersabar. Tapi semua itu bukan mudah melainkan Allah memudahkannya. Jika rasa mudah itu telah ada.. maka sudah sampai masanya. Jika tidak teruskan bersabar. Tidak perlu tergesa gesa ...

Someone had told me that it is better to use 2 pillow during sleep. Then i try to use 2 pillow as i really want a quality sleep but it only make me uncomfortable. Then i realise everybody have their own style. Something maybe good for you but its maybe not for other and vice verse. So just doing something that you comfortable with. Just ignore what other people said because you are the one who need to face the consiquences not them. Sometime you really want that thing but actually its not your. And sometime you really hate that thing but its good for you. What we think and want not really the best for us and vice verse. We just planning and He we will determine either it will happen or not. And always remember and confident that He is the best planer. He will give you what you need not what you want. Maybe you want that thing today but you may not want it anymore tomorrow because He can twist your thought in blinking eyes. Sometime you also can feel that you want something and its ...